Do you want to touch your guy's heart and make him feel loved? Is there an easy way to accomplish this type of heart matter? What is the best method with the greatest results? Keep reading and learn the three things you must do to make him feel truly loved by you, every day.
You don't want your guy to think that you only love him because of the things he buys for you, or for the ways he helps you in your life. What a confidence boost for anyone to know that they are really loved just because of who they are. Here's how to do it:
1. Be committed to him.
This does not only include physically, but also with your words. When he is not around, but some of his friends are, always talk about him positively and as complimentary as possible. Be quick to defend him if you ever hear a negative word.
2. Make an investment of your time and energy.
One girl wanted to celebrate her boyfriend's birthday, make him feel loved, and make the day extra special. She bought several things that she knew he needed and wanted and then proceeded to plan a treasure hunt outside around his home. She hid each item and left a clue as to where the next gift was.
Not only did it take a long time to write out the clues and hide everything. It took her boyfriend a long time to find everything. Anytime he wanted a hint, he had to give her one kiss to earn it. Rest assured, he was not questioning her love or devotion after finding all of his treasures. She made an investment of time, energy, and money for him.
3. Don't talk down to him.
When you disagree about something he has said or done, which will happen eventually in every relationship, there is a very important way to share that information with your guy. First, smile and tell him that you appreciate how he treats you or how he works hard on your relationship. Be sincere and honest.
Next, tell him that you trust him, but that you were concerned about his words or actions in the particular case. Since guys can be sensitive to criticism, keep it short and not too harsh. If you don't talk down to him, and treat him like a child, he should respond well and feel your love despite his shortcomings.
With this method, you will be able to make your guy feel loved in great measure.
You don't want your guy to think that you only love him because of the things he buys for you, or for the ways he helps you in your life. What a confidence boost for anyone to know that they are really loved just because of who they are. Here's how to do it:
1. Be committed to him.
This does not only include physically, but also with your words. When he is not around, but some of his friends are, always talk about him positively and as complimentary as possible. Be quick to defend him if you ever hear a negative word.
2. Make an investment of your time and energy.
One girl wanted to celebrate her boyfriend's birthday, make him feel loved, and make the day extra special. She bought several things that she knew he needed and wanted and then proceeded to plan a treasure hunt outside around his home. She hid each item and left a clue as to where the next gift was.
Not only did it take a long time to write out the clues and hide everything. It took her boyfriend a long time to find everything. Anytime he wanted a hint, he had to give her one kiss to earn it. Rest assured, he was not questioning her love or devotion after finding all of his treasures. She made an investment of time, energy, and money for him.
3. Don't talk down to him.
When you disagree about something he has said or done, which will happen eventually in every relationship, there is a very important way to share that information with your guy. First, smile and tell him that you appreciate how he treats you or how he works hard on your relationship. Be sincere and honest.
Next, tell him that you trust him, but that you were concerned about his words or actions in the particular case. Since guys can be sensitive to criticism, keep it short and not too harsh. If you don't talk down to him, and treat him like a child, he should respond well and feel your love despite his shortcomings.
With this method, you will be able to make your guy feel loved in great measure.
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